Archive for November, 2007

Thanksgiving Blessings

Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

Thanksgiving is a big time holiday that everybody thinks about as a great time with family and friends eating and drinking without consideration for limits.

However, it is supposed to be a time to be grateful.  How often do we stop the incessant do-do-do and go-go-go to take a moment to reflect on all the blessings in our lives?  We are caught up in the frenzy of our lives and spend much of our time busy going, doing and acquiring focused on filling our lives with what we think makes us happy.  How often do we believe that what we need is external, the next outfit, next man, next home?  We are so caught up in our own challenge to get as much as we can, after all, we’ve all believed in fairy tales and that whoever dies with the most toys, wins.   So, how do we get in touch with our true needs?  Good question?   The answer is the challenge.  We need to find what really brings us joy and find a way to incorporate it into our daily lives.  We need to find a way to be grateful for what we have, all of it.  We need to really appreciate what we’ve become and whatever goodness you can recount about yourself and those in your world.  It doesn’t have to be perfect to be counted.

So, as I reflect on my blessings on this special holiday, I take the time to breathe and say thank you.

Falling into the Holiday Swirl!

Sunday, November 4th, 2007
istock_000004775242xsmall2Well, it seems as though it’s that time of year again.  The time when everything starts to gain momentum, it’s as if we get caught up in the swirl of the leaves flying and move right into the holidays, one after another.

We go from that back to school time right into Halloween, then Thanksgiving, Christmas and the New Year without so much as a break in between.  It seems that as soon as the decorations are up, they need to be taken down and replaced with the next holiday.

Each year, I have been attempting to simplify.  I try to weed out and donate the decorations that I don’t love.  That way I only keep and get to enjoy the ones that I really like.   It seems much easier when it’s time to put them up or away.

This year, I want to be really intentional.  I want to stop all the busyness.  I am taking the time to reflect on what didn’t work for me last year.   By identifying what caused stress last year, I can simplify the way I do things by making changes that make it a happier holiday time.

I want to simplify with the cards and gifts, too.  Each year I make a list and then find it challenging to get the greeting cards done.  This year, I want to do it differently.  I am considering a service that will do the cards for me.  It can be just as personal and I don’t have to do all the work.

Do you have any ways that you are planning to simplify the holidays?